16 Undeniable Signs You've Found the 'One'

5/8/20245 min read

So, you've reached a point in your life when you're considering eventually settling down! Marriage and commitment are weighty words that might make many of us a bit anxious. But when you're with the right person, everything makes sense, and you're no longer afraid to commit.

Before you make the most important decision of your life, allow me to help you confirm if you have found one. After all, a soulmate is someone who comes into your life with a purpose and brings you on a journey that never stops to teach you about life and yourself.

Signs You Found the One

If you want to erase all your doubts from your mind about your special person, read our list of undeniable signs of finding the one, and nod along if we are talking about your relationship.

Let's get started!

1. You Have a Soaring Chemistry

The initial spark that you felt when meeting your partner plays a very important role in your relationship.

A strong chemistry in a relationship creates excitement, closeness, and a foundation for a strong emotional attachment.

Long-term partners require synchronization of their energies in order to collaborate and maintain passion in all of its forms.

2. Your Beliefs Aligns

It sounds fantastic when opposites attract! However, in a long-term partnership, this scenario could lead to a difficult road, especially when it comes to making life-changing decisions. When you find the one, life is simple while you both have the same beliefs.

If you and your partner cannot agree on a few points, you must be willing to respect each other's choices.

3. You Are Not Afraid to be Yourself

Living with someone who never lets you embrace your true self can be suffocating. Our partner should inspire us to become a better version of ourselves rather than forging a new identity as they please. The right person is going to love your true self and won't be flattered by a superfluous identity.

4. They are your Biggest Cheerleader

Have you ever doubted yourself or felt lost on the journey to reaching your goals? Then, looking back, you may recall that your partner never lost faith in you. They pushed you to realize your full potential.

Whether it was a minor or large accomplishment in life, your partner was always there for you, cheering you on.

5. You can Always Trust Them

Trust is one of the most essential ingredients of any successful relationship. A good relationship has a healthy amount of trust that develops over time. The person you're with has proven through their behavior that they're worthy of your trust.

6. You Have a Great Friendship



Along with being lovers, you and your partner have a beautiful friendship, which will come quite handy, especially when dealing with challenges and conflict in life.

You've found a lifelong buddy in your partner who makes life easier, happier, and more exciting. You can always share your quirks with them without fear of being judged.

7. Your Friends and Family Adore Them

If your close friends and family get along with your spouse, you know you've found the right person.

Not everyone has to agree with your love, but those who truly care about you can tell if someone is right for you or not.

8. You Truly Understand Each Other

If you and your love can see through each other and make sense of each other's mindset in most situations, then you are with the right person. It is true that understanding in a relationship grows over time.

If you are with the one true love, then you can be sure that they have put their effort into truly understanding you.

9. Conflicts Bring you Closer

Every relationship will have conflicts and challenging situations. And they can create great opportunities for couples to get to know each other.

But the way fights are handled can say a lot about the future of the relationship. If you and your partner grow close after each conflict through good communication and understanding, then you can be sure you have found the one.

10. You Admire their Flaws

Nobody is flawless in this world, including the person you are with. But there's something about them that makes their flaws appear even more perfect.

You absolutely enjoy the entire package they provide! What's more? Their imperfections and yours perfectly complement one other.

11. You Lift Each other Up



No matter how bad a day has been, you and your love can lift spirits of each other. A smile from them can just make your day and their presence fills your heart with warmth.

You can also vent about your day to them, and they will be all ears, waiting for you to calm down.

12. They are Open to Discussing the Future with you

One of the biggest signs of finding the one is being with someone who is honest about living the future with you.

The right person is not messing around and is persistent in pursuing you and proving their good intentions. You can clearly envision the future with them and be sure about what to expect.

13. You can Always Count on Them

Need something? Or are you having a bad day? You know you can always count on your partner to be there for you. They are also the person in your life who never breaks their promise to you.

You can be sure of them holding your hand through thick and thin.

14. Silence is Never Awkward

Spending the majority of your time with someone can bring moments where you have nothing to talk about and can just be silent and relax in your space. When you are with your special one, silence is never awkward and has its own beauty.

You don't have to always put in an effort to keep the conversation going.

15. They Never Misuse you



You can be totally sure that your partner has never misused your love for them. There has never been a situation where you felt like you were being taken advantage of.

Your partner respects you enough to not pull off such acts that will tamper with your love for them.

16. It's Ride or Die

You know in your bones that the person you are with will stick with you no matter what. They will gladly hold your hand as you embark on your next big adventure.


You have truly found the one if you can look at life and not be afraid of the uncertainty because you know you have your one with you.

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man kissing woman's forehead
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two person in brown boots and shoes on snowy forest
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